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Pirate Studebaker's avatar

Thank you for your post. "Loo-ceee! You got some 'splain' to do!" Philosophy. Psychology. Religion.

I agree. The best we can think of serves to shed light on what is already there. Of course, the quality and spectrum of the aforementioned light that is shed and the reliability of the eyesight of the viewer of what is revealed all factor in what is declared as "there". The declaration is unreliable.

I do get annoyed with people romanticizing ancient cultural situational ordering of "how it was in the good ol' dayz". I mean, people in the "hunter-gatherers" collectives slept in large lumps not because touch was a vital component of well-being and they understood it as such, but for survival. Warmth. Protection. Infants were quieted more so than today so as not to draw attention from predators.

Can any of us actually imagine sleeping in large and stinking piles with other people farting and snoring and thrashing and screwing each other and lice and fleas, etc., etc.? I always laugh when I read this kind of nonsense as if primitive tribes had it all figured out knowing the authors of such nonsense would likely run screaming from the cave in the very traumatized condition they claim sleeping in large touchy-feely groups prevented. Why does anyone assume that kind of communal sleeping arrangement leads to a "good" night's sleep? No thank you. I like the luxury of sleeping alone on a bed. I also understand others like sleeping with others. One is not necessarily superior to the other.

That's my primary problem with most philosophies or psychologies. They seek to not only shed light on what "is", but then strive to cure it or explain it all away. In my experience, life is so much larger than that and the very moment we strive to control it is interestingly the same moment we lose any illusion of control over it because the truth is, as far as I can see, we have no control over it. This truth I have witnessed confirmed continually.

The best we can hope for is some degree of control over ourselves, but even that is partially illusion as is illustrated time and again that when confronted with various circumstances we surprise ourselves with our response despite all best efforts at control of oneself.

This construct of a "world" whether it be today or thousands of years ago is a pack of lies. Piled on top of one another like a haystack. The more we insist we will ferret through the hay and find that needle of truth, the more ridiculous it becomes because there is no needle of truth to be found in a stack of lies. Only more and more lies.

As the lovely song you linked says, what we loved was not enough. We don't love God. He's too large for most of us to love or to contain within the pages of any book or man made construct we call "religion" that we can delude ourselves with. We want a "small" love that feels "safe", so we trade the terrifying enormity of loving God for the disappointing barter of loving one another, at best. Or ourselves. Or nothing at all at worst.

Let the malignant psychos play out their best game at trying to control everything. They have lost before they even began. Though I have no doubt as they play out this losing game it will be painful for everyone. I say, so what? Regardless. And damn the torpedoes.

I sincerely hope people will leave animals alone and stop lying to themselves that whatever response an animal has to a circumstance or a substance somehow reflects how it affects people. It is evident we are not the same. It's cruel to keep insisting we are. All the way around.

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Humbert Rivière's avatar

Very well written. I really appreciate how you merged philosophy and psychology. My background is in psychology and there is a quality to trauma that solipsism emerges as a protective mechanism.

Like you said, experiencing trauma can lead an individual to turn their focus inward, towards their own personal and subjective experiences, as a way to shield themselves from potential harm. This internalization of their thoughts and emotions creates a separation and isolation from the external world, paralleling the philosophical concept of solipsism, which questions the existence of reality outside of oneself. Consequently, the impact of trauma in the modern era is intricately entwined with philosophical musings, as it shapes and influences our understanding of the world.

But it always comes back to the *I*, because the root of trauma is that the I is threatened and needs to be protected. The traumatized sense of self remains pivotal in this scenario, as trauma inherently disrupts and jeopardizes the wholeness of an individual's subjective perception, serving as the main locus of both the traumatic event and its subsequent reactions. This astute observation sheds light on the inherent constraints within the presented perspective.

Here's a related back-and-fourth with radical solipsism. Somebody tells me "how do you know you exist?" and I respond that if they really believed I didn't exist they wouldn't be talking to me because I would have to have existed to ponder the question to being with. It's like writing me a letter telling me the mail system doesn't work, or calling me to tell me the phone doesn't work.

Just as your article argues solipsism relies on but denies the prior fact of the self's connection to the world, so too this philosophical question assumes the existence it aims to undermine. Both trauma and philosophical stances like solipsism rely on a more basic intertwining of self and world for their very possibility, even as they propose a notion of separation. This reflects how experiences of harm and threat arise and are addressed within fundamental social and environmental bonds. This radical stance, meant to protect the *I*, by denying the reality of the world and others outside the self, could exacerbate and prolong the traumatic effects.

By situating itself solely within the private subjective experience of the "I", radical solipsism fails to adequately address or resolve the psychological effects of trauma. By restricting itself solely to private subjective experience, radical solipsism remains trapped within trauma's isolating effects and does not provide a means of reconstructing the relational and external dimensions necessary to psychologically resolve and recover from the traumatic experience.

Another thing I learned from psychology is that "problems created in isolation cannot be resolved in isolation." Psychology indicates that fully addressing issues arising from isolation or external harm requires moving beyond a solely isolated perspective to rebuild connections severed and re-engage factors involved in their creation.

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